The Black & White Truth About Love

black and white love

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (ESV)

“Now, I let go of your hand somewhere in between
Love and what it demands of me.”
– As Cities Burn, The Hoard

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.” ― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves

Not to quote Rob Bell or anything, but Love wins. I don’t mean in the Universalist sense like he does. I mean that active love always wins by bringing glory to God through our works of love. Consider what Jesus says in Matthew 5.

“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” – Matthew 5:14-16 (ESV)

Our good works done out of the motivation of love, bring glory to God. It’s not just a “I’ll volunteer at the shelter if I have time this week” kind of love nor is it a “If I have some money left over at the end of the month I’ll give to the missionary fund at church” kind of love. It’s sacrificial love. It’s love that costs you something. A wise man once looked me in the eyes recently and said “Love is sacrifice. Always.” Real love will always cost you something.

Three of the most valuable resources you have are time, energy, and money. Where you spend the majority of your time, energy, and money is where you find the aim of your love.

As we go into Advent this Christmas season let us consider the aim of our love. Where are we putting our time, energy, and money? Are we using our three most valuable to resources to sacrificially love God and others, or are we bowing down to altar of comfort and ease?

Everything

“Mary therefore took a pound of expensive ointment made from pure nard, and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped his feet with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.” – John 12:3 (ESV) 

I made a Facebook status about this thought the other day, but I just really felt led to expound upon it some more. 

Everyone knew what was happening. They could smell it. It was thick in the air. It was more than the familiar scent of oil. It was the smell of someone pouring out everything they had ever worked for on the feet of this man that had spent the last three and a half years starting a revolution. To Mary, Jesus was more than a mere man, He was the son of God, He was the lover of her soul.

This sacrificial act of kindness began with her evaluating within her heart what Jesus was worth to her. Then finally, she made the decision. She poured it out. Everything. She poured everything out for her Everything. At this point, she had heard Jesus mention at least three times that he would die and be raised on the third day. She knew that to give everything to Him now.

What does Jesus mean to us? What is Jesus worth to us? Are we willing to give up everything we’ve worked for for Him? Is He everything to us?